Rekindling Your Flame

Saying "I Do" is the biggest commitment you'll ever make in your life. It isn't hard to get caught in the overwhelming cycle of your job, kids, and household duties and then you forget all about making time for your spouse. It's not hard to just get comfortable in your marriage and let the romance and dating come to a halt. It's like your so comfortable with each other that you just say "forget it" about having sex or "forget it" about trying to rekindle that spark you felt when you first kissed. Thats why I'm here to help. A simple solution that we as humans don't really think about, Courting you Spouse. One night, that's all it takes is one night to remind your significant other why they fell in love with you in the first place and woo-lah! Sounds easy enough right? Until it gets down to the planning and your mind goes blank. "Where do I go from here?" or "What do I do now?" Its simple. Your are the only one who knows your spouse better than he/she knows their self. Think of a time when you and your spouse were the most in love, the most happy in your marriage. Take your mind back to a time when everything was perfect. It may be when you thought your life was the most hectic when the kids were younger or when your job was the most stressful and looking back, you realize thats your happy place. That's where you wanna be again. Whether it's as simple and romantic as a walk through the park or taking your spouse out to a five star restaurant that he/she loves, make it count. Make it everything you hoped it'd be. You have one shot..one shot to make your life back to the way it once was. Dont blow it. After you've accomplished it, it'll be hard not to get back into the swing of things, but don't. Take time for just the two of you, away from your careers, away from the kids. Get a babysitter and have a night on the town or a romantic candelight dinner. No matter what you choose, own it. Make it count and make the night yours. Let your spouse know what you've been longing to tell them. Rekindle your fire and never let the flame burn out.